HI, AND WELCOME TO MY BLOG!

This site is all about CHANGE - Change with a Big 'C'

Change is the underlying theme, changing our way of thinking! For our own benefit!

We have all been 'conditioned' to comply with the requirements of our society's way of doing things.

Can we break out?

If you are ready for a whole new way of looking at the world, its environment, ourselves as human beings and everything we see around us and in our lives then you might be interested to read on! You will read of the conventional viewed from an unconventional perspective.

It is easy to carry on as we are, doing things in the ways passed down to us by our ancestors but to do so would be wasting a wonderful existence for us all in this lifetime.

From my viewpoint, change is required very soon if we are to survive as a collective of beings.

Have you often felt out of place, sort of 'out of time', even with your own family and friends? A feeling that something is 'not quite right', but you could never quite put your finger on what that something is?

Perhaps you are a fellow 'pioneer'. You may have within you a special strength to usher in what is needed, what is new, as a way of thinking.

I look forward to posting here the collective of my lifetime's experiences, personal development issues and inspirational thoughts for your reflection.

I know that, in the process, I will gain significant insights from your interaction and feedback.

Tuesday, 16 November 2010

CHANGE, FOR OUR OWN PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT ( Part 3 )

WE CAN FEEL DIFFERENT TO HOW WE FEEL NOW

This squashing of our own naturally instinctive way of thinking turns our natural senses or feelings into a fear, fear of being ourselves. (The sense has become an emotion, fear).
“I am frightened of being me” actually means “I am frightened of trusting my own thoughts and ideas” and is often based upon what others have said, or ignored, about us. This can turn into “I hate my life, I hate being me, I hate myself.” The most destructive aspect of all this is that the repetitive, habitual way of thinking about ourselves is so ingrained in us that we fail to see how we can ever be any different. People often say that this is just how they are and there’s no point thinking they can be any other way.

We certainly can’t be a different human being with a different life. We have to live our own life.
But we can change to ‘be’ and to feel differently within our own life by making changes to the way we process our thoughts and how we react to everything we see happening in our life. We learned how to be as we are now and we can learn how to be different from this point on.
Usually we have to acknowledge certain things about ourselves before we can move on.

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